guide

When Should You Stop Using a Clit Sucker

The sex toys industry has moved way beyond dildos and vibrators. We’re well beyond the point where you need a penis or even a penis-shaped device to reach orgasm. The recent wave of clit suction sex toys has transformed the way women perceive orgasm and self-love.

No shade to dildos and vibrators. They’re great for those who want direct penetrative stimulation. But they don’t work for everyone. Some don’t like the shape of dildos. Some don’t like how they have to be hidden away in some locked drawer. Some don’t like the sensation of vibrations.

That’s where clit suction stimulators come in. They offer more control and less shame.

How Are Clit Suckers Different From Vibrators?

Clit suction sex toys aren’t shaped like actual penises. In fact, most of them can be placed prominently on your coffee table as a decorative device. They take the notions of shame away from sex or self-love — where they never belonged to begin with.

They also offer more control than traditional vibrators. That’s primarily because of their unique technology that could be compared to oral sex in a way.

They create a form of “indirect” stimulation, surrounding the clitoris with pulsating energy. Instead of stimulating the external nerve endings, they generate air pressure waves that trigger the deep structures of the clitoris. You simply place the nozzle of the toy over your clitoris and ride the waves of pleasure to completion!

You simply place the nozzle of the toy over your clitoris and ride the waves of pleasure to completion!

If you’ve never used one, you’ll be hard-pressed to really get what that means. And that’s precisely the point! Clit suction sex toys have introduced us to forms of pleasure we didn’t even know existed.

Giving You Complete Control Over Your Orgasms

Clit suckers are so powerful that some women claim they can orgasm within 30 seconds, and others have credited these innovative toys with their first-ever orgasm.

That’s a pretty significant achievement. According to a new study conducted by researchers from Chapman University, Indiana University, and the Kinsey Institute, most women never actually experience an orgasm through sex.

Only 65% of heterosexual and cisgender women have consistent orgasms during sex with cisgender male partners. Compared to that, 66% of bisexual women and 86% of lesbian women have consistent orgasms with partners.

That means there’s a whole lot of folks with vulvas not experiencing the pleasure of an orgasm. Clit suckers rightfully wrench the mantle and responsibility away from male or female partners, placing it back in your palms. You can now control your own orgasms.

You Don’t Have To Choose Between Vibrations and Suction. Have ‘em Both!

However, clit suckers don’t exclusively provide indirect air pressure-based stimulation. Many advanced and innovative toys, like Biird's Obii, combine suction with vibrations. For example, Obii comes with 3 vibration modes in addition to the suction mode, taking you from a teasing murmur to a deep pulsating action.

Many advanced and innovative toys, like Biird's Obii, combine suction with vibrations.

You can now alternate between suction and vibration to find the precise combination of clitoral stimulation that works best for your body. Everyone’s body is unique — take your time to explore the permutations and combinations of suction and vibrations to reach an otherworldly climax!

Are Clit Suckers Safe and Comfortable?

One of your primary concerns may be your sex toy’s safety. After all, if you’re using something in direct contact with your body, you must be sure it’s safe for… um, consumption.

Clit suckers are completely safe and comfortable. But you must take the time to find a toy made of high-quality materials with safety and comfort in prime consideration. You’ll find plenty of sex toys made of inferior or hard materials that chafe your skin.

But… word of caution, take the time to find the right toy. And when you get it, work it on your hands to make sure it’s soft enough for your clitoris.

Obii, for example, is a soft and squishy clit suction sex toy made of and body-safe silicone. It feels smooth and silky against your skin, perfectly safe for use. It also includes a customizable nozzle placement that helps with non-friction, ensuring a safe and comfortable experience.

Is There Ever a Reason To Stop?

Now, let’s address the question that kicked off this article: when should you stop using a clit suction sex toy?

People often ask us when they should stop using a clitoral stimulator. After a brief pause for confusion, the answer seems pretty simple and obvious. You can stop using the stimulator once you’ve… orgasmed.

But you don’t have to stop using the sex toy after orgasming. In fact, many women continue past the point of orgasm, hoping to induce a second or third or more orgasm, riding the waves of pleasure till the limit. And that’s completely alright as well. Just remember to clean it properly after you’re done.

You deserve to enjoy your body whenever you want. Most innovative clit suction sex toys have an ergonomic design suitable for comfortable use, so there’s no need to ever stop.

Don’t go beyond your body’s limits. Using a sex toy — any sex toy — should be a pleasurable experience.

Having said that, we’d again encourage you to practice caution. Don’t go beyond your body’s limits. Using a sex toy — any sex toy — should be a pleasurable experience. If there’s the slightest bit of discomfort, something may be wrong and you should stop using your clitoral stimulator.

Listen to your body. Use lubricant if necessary. Continue using the clit sucker until it feels good. And stop if anything feels odd… or when you’re done. That’s all there is to it!


Back to:

How To Use a Clit Sucker

About Author
Ellie Cooper
Ellie is a freelance writer and pleasure enthusiast. She is very comfortable talking about vaginas, scaling mountains and eating spicy food, but not parallel parking. She lives with a very tubby cat named Charles who likes to get involved with the writing process by sleeping on her keyboard.